We all make excuses and complaints from time to time but we must understand that both are ultimately a source of weakness.
No life is perfect. We all have crap to deal with and some more than others.
But when you resort to excuses and complaining it gives the world and the people around you the power to dictate who you are and who you can become.
In the end, no one deserves that power but you.
It is up to you to decide. Up to you to dictate. And up to you to do what is needed and to adapt as necessary.
Don’t resort to excuses and complaints and, if you are a parent, never let this habit get started in your kids. It will ruin their lives.